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ex21If you want to know how to keep your woman happy’ this post is for you.
It is not easy to do but once you master it, you will win the heart of your woman forever.  So it is worth a try?

A Woman sometimes just needs to talk.  Men are programmed to find solutions to every problem but sometimes we just want you to listen to us.  We don’t want you to look after us or solve every issue we raise but just to listen.

Yes it’s true that she can spend two hours on the phone to a friend that she is meeting that afternoon anyway.  It goes back to the days of cavemen. Whilst the men were out hunting, the women were at home where their ability to bond with others was directly proportionate to their chances of survival. They depended on the other women to look after them and their families should they fall sick. Childbirth in those days often resulted in a death sentence for these kind of women.

Women like to go to the toilets in twos and threes.  It is just a girl thing and the sooner you come to accept it the better.  Don’t start to be paranoid, we are not going to discuss you in detail – that will happen tomorrow.

Buy your lovely woman flowers. But rather than buying her a bunch of roses, send her one of her favorite flowers every so often. This way she will know that you are thinking of her rather than just making a grand gesture.

Little things mean a lot to so many women.  So regardless of the fact that you are working 60 plus hours per week to pay your mortgage or put the kids through school, always find time to ring her at least twice a day. make a phone call to say that you miss her and then ring her back later on to tell her what time you expect to be home.

Say thank you when she does something ordinary.  Everyone including women like to be appreciated so if you come home and it is obvious she has cleaned the bathroom, notice it and make an effort to keep it clean as much as you can.  That means helping your towel to find its way off the bathroom floor.

If your woman has had a hard day at the office, run her a hot bath and hand her a glass of chilled wine whilst you put the kids to bed and prepare dinner.   Don’t ruin it by expecting sexual favors in return.  In different surveys recently, when women were asked what would make them happy, one of the most common answers was to be kissed without being groped!

Surprise your lovely woman with a note under her pillow telling her how much you love her or appreciate her.  Ok she will probably assume you have done something wrong and wonder if you are feeling guilty but underneath she will be pleased.

Making a woman happy involves doing the little things in life just that little bit more.
Follow these little tips and tricks and you will make your woman happy easily.

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helpmeLet me ask you something, How many times do men ask their friends the question: how do I get my ex girlfriend back?  Honestly, I thought it was a woman’s prerogative to change her mind.  Some men just don’t know when they are onto a good thing and their reasons for ending relationships border on the ridiculous.

So many of my male friends have finished with girls for:

1) wearing the wrong shoes!
2) The new barmaid at his favorite bar smiled at him.
3) Her mother

Now, ok I know that a pretty face can turn any man’s head and there is the dreaded notion that a woman may turn into her mother but come on man – the wrong type of her shoes?  If women didn’t date men because of the clothes they were wearing the human race would have died out long ago.  Behind every well dressed man is a good woman- in early life his mother and later his wife!

I always tell my good friends that they must  make a list before they break up with their partners.  On one side of the list, you put her good points.  Do you find her interesting? Does she look after you?  Does she cook for you?  Does she laugh at your jokes?  Are you attracted to her or not?

On the other side of the list, they can put the things that wind them up.  Ok she may nag at little too much but then if you put the toilet seat down she might stop.  Maybe, she may not want more than a cuddle every evening but five times a week doesn’t mean that she isn’t caring enough.

Writing the good and bad points of your life together down on paper may seem like a cold approach but it is a great way of seeing what a great relationship you do/did have. You need to compare the two lists and decide if you should be breaking up with this woman or not. If you are doing it after the event, it also helps to clarify if you made the right decision to finish the relationship. Sometimes we regret breaking up as we end up feeling lonely.  But loneliness is not enough to get back together.

If you have dumped the woman in your life but now know it was the wrong decision you need to act fast, I mean very fast.  Great life partners do not grow on trees.  She has shown that she will put up with you in all your glory – how many women would be mad enough to do that?

Take a leaf out Richard Gere’s book and put some romance back into her lady’s life.  Send her flowers – not a bunch of red roses but some of her favorites that you know she will love.  Send her a handwritten letter telling her how much you love her and miss her.

Book her favorite restaurant and treat her to a night out.  In short, you need to treat her just like the princess you believe her to be and assuming you are not a complete disgrace, you won’t have ask how to get my ex girlfriend back.
If you will start following these steps today you will have a chance to get your ex girlfriend back faster than you might think.

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If you’ve read or listened to relationships experts (I’m sure you did), you know that some of what they say is just common sense. They tell us things we already know, but they’re great at putting it into words and examples that make things easier to understand. The best relationships experts just know how to communicate and that’s what makes them “experts”.

They can take those common sense things and say them in a way that makes you “get it.” Like the concept of what to expect and what to give in the relationship. This is one of the best lessons you can get from relationships experts.

Very often we go along in a relationship and as time goes on we start to take the other person for granted a little bit. We don’t thank them as much, and sometimes we don’t do nice things in return for them quite as much.

It’s not that we don’t want to, but that we simply forget or think there will be time to do it later. After the relationship hit a rocky period and ended and you’ve gotten back together, remember to be thoughtful and kind becomes very important. Relationships experts stress that as a very important way to keep a relationship strong.

A second great lesson from relationship experts is to do what the other person will appreciate. This is another great common sense lesson that’s all too easy to overlook. It applies to anytime during a relationship but after you’ve gotten back together from a break up or other bad patch it’s even more important.

To do what the other person wants doesn’t mean you should never consider it yourself. But you should try to do what appeals to them to show them that you really care about them. If it really makes you happy when your boyfriend helps you wash the dishes, then maybe if you helped him with some housework that would make him feel loved, too.

But there may be ways he likes to feel loved that are different. He might be the type of person who likes to hear you say it often. Even if those things aren’t as important to you, you need to do the things that will be special for the other side.

Sometimes we forget that, or we just assume that everyone responds to the same things. But doing what makes the other person feel most special is easy to do, as long as we remind ourselves to do it.

And a lesson that the experts teach that often goes forgotten is respect. Of course, you respect your girlfriend or boyfriend, but does it always show? This is part of taking them for granted but goes beyond not thanking them or returning loving gestures.

Often, the person we’re closest to gets the brunt our worst days. We might be late for something and keep them waiting, or we might just accidentally be inconsiderate and not apologize enough. Take a lesson from the relationships experts and ask yourself if you treat your partner with the same respect you would treat a parents or co-worker. If you will follow these lessons from the relationship experts you are in the right way for success…

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