If you need some tips on making up with your boyfriend this post is for you.
Here are some useful tips that were helpful for me on making up with my boyfriend few years ago:
1) Men don’t like chit chat: Generally speaking men don’t like to talk in depth about their feelings and forcing the issue will just cause them to clam up even more. So when you are trying to get back together, don’t force your boyfriend to analyze what went wrong. If he behaved badly but is willing to apologize, accept it and move on fast.
2) Men can only concentrate on one thing at a time. This is true so don’t try and fight against it. Very few men can multitask and it is their genetics that are to blame so shouting at him is pointless. The sooner you accept that your boyfriend cannot listen to you while reading his newspaper or watching TV the better. Most of the time, he is not ignoring you on purpose. The more you try to understand that this is the way he is programmed the less arguments you will have.
3) Men like toys. The joke is that men never grow up and show it by still playing with toys. Most men love to build things and start different DIY jobs. Not all of them like to finish these jobs which can cause many problems at home. Let your man indulge his hobbies, within reason. You can spend some time with your girlfriends while your boyfriend is fishing or building a boat. By compromising like this, he will probably be much more willing to spend time with you doing things together that you both enjoy.
4) Don’t assume that your man knows that you want to make up with him. Men in general tend to be a bit slow in picking up signals especially about their own relationships. For this reason, you sometimes need to be very direct and tell them exactly how you feel. Men don’t like games unless they understand the rules like in Golf or Chess. Us women change the rules on dating more often than men change their shirts so we need to give them a short break if they get a little confused.
5) Have you heard the joke – “Why does it take loads of sperm to fertilize one egg? Because they refuse to stop for directions!” I know the men in my life would prefer to get lost, than admit defeat and stop to ask for directions. Generally men find it very hard to admit they are wrong. If you question what they say, they can believe you are implying they have done something wrong. This can cause problems in many modern relationships as women are so used to being the boss at work and giving others directions.
Don’t get me wrong, I am not suggesting that women need to become door mats or defer to their partners. But a little understanding of genetics goes a long way to help resolve your question of making up with my boyfriend.
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