It can be a difficult time for you if your ex boyfriend dumped you. You probably do not even fell like your own self at this point. Life may even seem to have lost its meaning entirely.
If you want to get your ex boyfriend back it is very important to do the things right.
If your ex boyfriend dumped you after a spat, it should be fairly easy to get him back. Just give him time and he will be coming around wanting to make up. However, If it was something more serious, it will take some work. In both cases you should not have any contact with your ex boyfriend for a while. A cooling off time will be good for both of you.
Another important thing is to stop wishing to see him.
You have been used to seeing your ex boyfriend everywhere and anywhere you go. And the fact that your ex boyfriend isn’t there anymore makes the pain unbearable. But seeing your ex boyfriend near yet so far at the same time will not take the pain away, so stop hanging out at his favorite place or driving to his house just to catch a glimpse of him. It won’t help you.
Another important thing is to start moving on with your life by going about your normal daily activities.
Go out with your close friends and spend some bonding moments with members of your family; these people can greatly support and help you out in our current situation. If the hurt feelings is making it hard for you to go on, you can join support groups and civic organizations or even volunteer for charity works because these activities can aid you in keeping your mind off your current problem and your ex boyfriend.
Chances are that your ex boyfriend will hear about your activities from friends and this will cause him to call you to see what is going on. When he calls, you might want to chat with him for awhile and tell him you did not realize what a rut you had gotten into. Be vague, but give your ex boyfriend the impression that you are happy and have met some very interesting new people.
Remember that you don’t want to say if they are men or women, let your ex boyfriend imagination take over from there. There is a good chance that he will assume they are men and this will cause him to fear losing you and he will be back chasing you again.
These tips should be a good start for you if you want to get your ex boyfriend back, good luck!